The hypocrisy of sufficiency

  THE HYPOCRISY OF SUFFICIENCY 

The family , relationship , friendship  all these things some way or the other give meaning to our lives . We try to fill these aspects of our lives , we try hard to stay in touch , to take care of others , to understand others and so on … but in this process when we try to fill others in some way or the other we forget our own self . Each and every time we try to be sufficient for others  :we try to be best daughter , best son , best partner , best friend , but in this whole process where we are trying to be sufficient for others we forget to be sufficient for our own self .

  Even if you try to give your best , but in some way or the other in this universe you can’t be sufficient for others , we all focus on giving and giving. We forget to give something for our own self . It is always about making someone happy , making someone special , but we forget that we are also a person who deserves to be happy , to be taken care of , to be understood . If you ask yourself a question :what do I like ? What do I expect from my own self which isn’t related to making someone else happy ? many of us wouldn’t be able to answer , many of us wouldn’t have answer where other individual is not included .I feel like this is the way we have been grown up , everyone always taught us to think about others , to understand others , but in whole race we forgot to give importance to our own self , to live for our own self .Many people (as specially our mothers )  in their whole life lived for others that they forget who they are , what is their own life purpose , what they are as INDIVIDUAL . We as people living in a society , try to depend on others , try to coordinate with others but we forget to live for our own self and as a result during your 50s-60s you will feel regret that you only lived for others , you only gave importance to what others feel and think about yourself . 

I feel like this is the moment where you should try to be sufficient for your own self ,because how much you try it is a bitter truth that you are never going to be sufficient for others .  Every individual should have the ability to enjoy their own presence , everyone should not only work on their physical health , but at the same time they should work on their mental health as well , try to feed your mind with good thoughts and useful knowledge . We should all try to stop  feeding our mind with social media content , because social media is an illusion , the real world isn’t .

It is better to be there for yourself , because at the end you are going to go alone in the grave